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Politics ruining a friendship
Dear Abby

Politics ruining a friendship

November 19, 2018

I feel it has become a one-way conversation, and she’s not interested in listening to me. This is extremely upsetting because my husband passed away two years ago, and she…

Dad’s new love news to daughter
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Dad’s new love news to daughter

November 16, 2018

I just traveled across the country for a family funeral and discovered that he has a new love in his life, and that he flew her out to see all…

Grandmother waiting for thank yous
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Grandmother waiting for thank yous

November 13, 2018

Birthdays have come and gone this year, but Christmas is on the way. I’m wondering what I can do to reach these young people in a meaningful manner. I’m older…

New employee want gastric surgery kept secret
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New employee want gastric surgery kept secret

November 10, 2018

I am starting a new job soon and do not want to tell my new employer or co-workers that I have had this operation. People always treat you differently once…

Best friends are drifting apart
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Best friends are drifting apart

November 9, 2018

It has now been a few months since I’ve seen her, and so much has changed. She doesn’t make time to text or call me hardly ever, and when she…

Stepmom discovers son’s secret
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Stepmom discovers son’s secret

November 6, 2018

I want to believe that’s not true, but the writing and everything else checks out. I wish I had never seen it. We’re a Christian family and have conservative views.…

Overbearing dad aggravating son
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Overbearing dad aggravating son

November 5, 2018

I love my father dearly, but I can’t stand him as a person. He can be very rude and verbally abusive. He has told people we know very personal things…

Mom’s death leads to war over house
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Mom’s death leads to war over house

November 2, 2018

After Mom’s funeral, my brother insisted he would move into her house while he remodeled it, which could tie up the house for a year. It made no sense to…

Friend’s loyalty may be shifting
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Friend’s loyalty may be shifting

October 30, 2018

Jill still calls us best friends, but I’m afraid she’ll betray me and tell Kelly everything we talk about. We used to make fun of Kelly for being a slut.…

Tattoo lover gets birthday criticism
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Tattoo lover gets birthday criticism

October 29, 2018

For her birthday, my in-laws sent her a birthday card. Usually their card includes a gift card, check or cash. This year, there was no gift but a note stating…

Cleaner takes stab at interior design
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Cleaner takes stab at interior design

October 25, 2018

For example, she reorganized a kitchen drawer and laundry room cabinet without first clearing it with me. Yesterday, when I walked into my laundry room, I noticed two pictures had…

Girlfriend thinks parents dislike her
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Girlfriend thinks parents dislike her

October 19, 2018

I don’t think my parents dislike Linnay, but they do seem hesitant to interact with her, involve her in things our family does and they don’t seem motivated to create…

Wife irked at man’s Facebook friends
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Wife irked at man’s Facebook friends

October 16, 2018

When we met, he was honest, and I was understanding. He didn’t keep in touch with any of those females (pre-Facebook). But now he’s friends with several of them on…

Unemployed son complains he is overworked at home
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Unemployed son complains he is overworked at home

October 12, 2018

Our longtime cleaning lady recently quit, and my parents seemingly have no interest in hiring a replacement. My sisters and my father don’t help with the chores because they are…

Man learns he may have a son he never knew about
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Man learns he may have a son he never knew about

October 9, 2018

I recently found out I may have another son from a relationship before my marriage. The woman never notified me or asked for child support. I found out through someone…

Man uses wife’s problems against her
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Man uses wife’s problems against her

September 28, 2018

I’m upset that he brings this up when we argue to validate his point of view. Of course, this escalates our fights and eventually he apologizes. However, I know the…

Dance puts teen in awkward position
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Dance puts teen in awkward position

September 21, 2018

My girlfriend grew up in a bigger school where homecoming is much more important. She’s convinced I’m going to be someone else’s Prince Charming for the night. What she can’t…