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Girlfriend does not want sex

When I was 17, I was raped by my ex-boyfriend, and I admit it traumatized me. But that isn’t what…

August 15, 2018

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Texts from mom raise concern

The problem is James’ mother. She’s well meaning, and she has always been incredibly sweet to me, but she has…

August 13, 2018

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Wife keeps debt a secret

We share our bills, but I am broke all the time. I have credit card debt he doesn’t know about.…

August 12, 2018

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No wedding invite for selfless friend

The kicker: My husband and I were not invited to the wedding, and when she returned my gown, it had…

August 11, 2018

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Guilt remains after friendship ends

While I was on vacation two years ago, she was diagnosed with cancer. I came home immediately and drove to…

August 10, 2018

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Mom charges rent after wedding

When I moved in, his mom asked that I pay rent. I guess in the back of my mind I…

August 9, 2018

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Grandma worries about exposed toddler

I have told Scarlet on several occasions that I don’t feel comfortable with Sierra being exposed like that around the…

August 8, 2018

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Wife attracted to woman causes confusion

I haven’t told anyone, not even her. She has made several comments and advances toward me, but she frequently makes…

August 7, 2018

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Man left jobless after surgery

When I called my employer, he said, “Sorry. No work,” and hung up on me! I am 64 years old…

August 6, 2018

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Step Parents’ Day gains popularity

The kids had regular visits with their father. The first Father’s Day after I married their mom, we arranged for…

August 5, 2018

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Hormones could explain mood swings

My doctors figured out my problem was caused by a hormonal imbalance. Since the body makes many different types of…

August 4, 2018

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Mom fearful as daughter leaves for school

Rationally, I know she’ll be fine and can take care of herself, but I am terrified that something will happen…

August 3, 2018

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Mom uses police to discipline child

I was having lunch the other day with two other officers. Sitting across from us was a young mom whose…

August 2, 2018

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Family torn apart by brother-in-law

Although my sister said she intended to divorce him, she never did. She also didn’t report it – so he…

August 1, 2018

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Infant plays favorites in day care

One baby has become extremely attached to me, to the point that I can’t take a break or go to…

July 31, 2018

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Wife’s travel spoiled by man

My husband retired six years ago. His daily routine is visiting his mother (every day) in an assisted living facility.…

July 30, 2018

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Wife overlooks husband’s conspiracies

We have been married two years now, and I’m trying hard to reconcile the fact that I’m married to a…

July 29, 2018

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Teen-dad relationship gets uncomfortable

Since I have finally forgiven him for all the pain he’s caused, I sometimes accept when he invites me out…

July 28, 2018

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Friends add to woman’s grief

A couple of years ago, my dad moved in with me so I could care for him. The early evening…

July 27, 2018

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Daughter cries over visiting parents

Their cleaning practices are questionable. They simply rinse plates and utensils after use, as opposed to using the dishwasher. Within…

July 26, 2018

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Racy photo no longer laughing matter

I sent it to my boyfriend because he doesn’t like her either, even though he thinks she has a “hot…

July 25, 2018

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Man reconsiders life after friend’s death

I have a wonderful wife and amazing children. We are pretty active and have stressful jobs, so there is little…

July 24, 2018

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Family abuse should remain hidden

I have cut all ties with my biological family, as I am happier and more sane without them. They have…

July 23, 2018

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Friend’s husband, kids unwanted on vacation

I have known Charlotte’s (now) husband for 16 years as well, and never cared for him. When they became engaged,…

July 22, 2018

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Woman unsure about forgiving friend

She has now tried to contact me wanting to be friends again. While I do miss her friendship, she did…

July 21, 2018

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Video games threaten relationship

I know he chats with a lot of people, both male and female, on these games. I suspect he has…

July 20, 2018

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Widow struggles to start dating

I have decided to start dating again. I want to meet someone and hopefully feel loved. I joined a dating…

July 19, 2018

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Grandson asks about dating

DEAR MARGARET: Kids are maturing at younger ages than when we were growing up. Part of the reason may be…

July 18, 2018

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Family dismisses special diet

My dad’s side of the family is Italian, and a huge part of the culture is food. During celebrations, it’s…

July 17, 2018

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Friends turn their backs on girl

After she was back for three months, her friends stopped inviting her to things and even talked behind her back…

July 16, 2018