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Girlfriend keeps fans on Facebook
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Girlfriend keeps fans on Facebook

June 4, 2021

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been dating the same woman for more than two years. She is a beautiful lady who has quite a few male “fans” on Facebook, mostly from before…

Victim seeks distance from perpetrator
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Victim seeks distance from perpetrator

June 1, 2021

DEAR ABBY: I was sexually assaulted by my cousin’s boyfriend a short while ago, and it was hard for me to process. When I told my cousin about it, she…

Exercise equipment’s fate sore subject
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Exercise equipment’s fate sore subject

May 28, 2021

DEAR ABBY: Several years ago, while living with my sister, I bought a $900 rowing machine I could barely afford. I loved it and used it often. Two years ago,…

Sisters react differently in rift
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Sisters react differently in rift

May 27, 2021

DEAR ABBY: Seventeen years ago, when my sister “Elise” and I were 19 and 25, our mother kicked us both out. I have long since forgiven her, and I have…

Half-sister obsesses over newfound brother
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Half-sister obsesses over newfound brother

May 6, 2021

Since he and his four siblings met their half-sister, she has become obsessive about him. She calls and keeps him on the phone for hours, three or four times a…

Wife discovers man’s secret interest
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Wife discovers man’s secret interest

May 4, 2021

However, I now know he created another email address and joined an escort review site. I can’t say anything to him because I snooped on his phone. I’m heartbroken and…

Couple clashes over time spent with sons
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Couple clashes over time spent with sons

April 30, 2021

There’s a lot of tension between us because my stepson’s father isn’t the greatest parent. He never comes to school events or sporting events, so he misses half of everything.…

Dating suffers in sex-obsessed culture
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Dating suffers in sex-obsessed culture

April 29, 2021

I’d like to believe that sex is something people who are already emotionally intimate can share. But by the third date, sex is not only expected but considered “normal.” When…

Relationship ends when wife returns
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Relationship ends when wife returns

April 27, 2021

His wife abandoned him and their two children for more than a year, and he didn’t know anything about raising kids, so I stepped in to help. It was great.…

Dog-walker gives neighbor the creeps
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Dog-walker gives neighbor the creeps

April 23, 2021

An elderly neighbor has a habit of walking his German shepherd by my unit. My dog does not like the man and barks ferociously every time he hears them. What…

Mom feels shunned over playdates
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Mom feels shunned over playdates

April 22, 2021

I’m bipolar, and I have social anxiety, so when I say yes to something, it is huge for me. When they don’t respond, I feel as though I am annoying…

Man wants to quit trying for more kids
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Man wants to quit trying for more kids

April 20, 2021

I always wanted a boatload of children, but my husband and I agreed on two before we got married. Now he wants to call it quits. He doesn’t want to…

Distance tests strength of engagement
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Distance tests strength of engagement

April 16, 2021

We are both in the military, and we have maintained this relationship well. But there was a time before we dated that I was dating someone else. I ended that…

Mother-daughter fight leads to threats
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Mother-daughter fight leads to threats

April 13, 2021

My friend struggled her whole life but got a college degree, bought a house five years ago and owns two cars all on her own. She has recently started having…

Man calls out middle-aged women
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Man calls out middle-aged women

April 9, 2021

On multiple dating apps, I have swiped right on dozens of women my age. My main criteria were that they weren’t fanatically religious or rabidly political. Would you like to…

Man weighed down by sadness
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Man weighed down by sadness

April 9, 2021

I took her for granted and didn’t show her the affection she deserved, but I have been going to therapy to work through issues that I had suppressed for decades…

Relationship stops short of intimacy
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Relationship stops short of intimacy

April 6, 2021

Unfortunately, when the time came to move our relationship to an intimate level, I found my attraction to him was one-sided. When I asked him why, he said he did…

Husband won’t put will in writing
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Husband won’t put will in writing

April 2, 2021

He has an adult child from his first marriage and would like to include her in the will. I’m fine with what he wants. This conversation has been going on…

Moving home comes with questions
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Moving home comes with questions

April 1, 2021

I recently went on vacation. I knew my room was a little messier than I’d like, but I also knew I’d return from vacation ready to tackle the pile of…

Wife unsettled by man’s obsession
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Wife unsettled by man’s obsession

March 30, 2021

Three months ago, he asked to do some role playing, where we hid my leg under a towel to give the appearance of having a below-the-knee amputation, which he says…

New hire wrecked neighbor’s car
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New hire wrecked neighbor’s car

March 26, 2021

My car was parked legally on the street, and there was a huge dent in it. I called the police and, based on the location of the dent and the…

Fortunes change for homeless woman
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Fortunes change for homeless woman

March 25, 2021

I receive Social Security survivor benefits now, and I want to move on and get my own place. He says he’s fine with it, but I feel terribly guilty. He…

Teen swears stepmom to secrecy
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Teen swears stepmom to secrecy

March 23, 2021

My husband and Amelia are very close, but she and her mom recently had a falling-out. Amelia pledged me to secrecy, and I immediately scheduled her to see an OB/GYN…

Past cruelties linger in relationship
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Past cruelties linger in relationship

March 18, 2021

For the record, I and many others always found Vera to be extremely self-absorbed and lacking in empathy. She often treated my father unkindly, bordering on abusive before and during…

Happy host declines help in kitchen
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Happy host declines help in kitchen

March 16, 2021

For more than 20 years, my husband and I hosted a dinner every Sunday after church. I set the table for 10, but we often had more. When guests offered…