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Young woman feels pressure to be ‘perfect’
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Young woman feels pressure to be ‘perfect’

August 24, 2021

DEAR ABBY: My name is “Lucia,” I am 15 and I live in Santa Catarina, Brazil. My high school classmates and I saw a letter from “Needs a Direction, Atlanta”…

Couple needn’t agree of after-death wishes
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Couple needn’t agree of after-death wishes

August 20, 2021

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I disagree about our arrangements after we die. I would like to be cremated and scattered at a location with wonderful memories, like where we…

Retirement hasn’t changed routine
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Retirement hasn’t changed routine

August 17, 2021

DEAR ABBY: My husband retired a few months ago. I was a stay-at-home mom for most of our married life but have worked part time for several years. I always…

Online relationship blossoms for older woman
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Online relationship blossoms for older woman

July 31, 2021

DEAR ABBY: Two years ago, I met a wonderful man online. He’s from Wales in the U.K. He’s 21 years younger than I am, so, naturally, I’m cautious about how…

Grandma’s responsibilities begin to pile up
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Grandma’s responsibilities begin to pile up

July 30, 2021

DEAR ABBY: My daughter is pregnant with her second child. Her first, my granddaughter, is 2, and the light of my life. I lovingly offered to take care of her…

Husband’s pantyhose fixation bothers wife
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Husband’s pantyhose fixation bothers wife

July 27, 2021

DEAR ABBY: I’m having difficulty understanding my husband’s obsession with pantyhose. When we met 10 years ago, he explained to me during a phone conversation that he liked wearing pantyhose…

Rommates get snippy of canine care
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Rommates get snippy of canine care

July 24, 2021

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I are newlyweds and share an apartment with another couple because we ran into financial difficulties, and this was our only option. The problem is…

Ungrateful daughter intimidates
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Ungrateful daughter intimidates

July 20, 2021

DEAR ABBY: My 40-year-old daughter has never worked. She never married but has a 5-year-old son and is expecting a girl in six months. My husband bought a house for…

Woman continues to hide ex’s double life
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Woman continues to hide ex’s double life

July 20, 2021

DEAR ABBY: I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago, but I’m still having a difficult time getting over him. I discovered he was responding to sexual messages…

Affair with musician strikes sour note
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Affair with musician strikes sour note

July 9, 2021

DEAR ABBY: My husband of 49 years had an affair two years ago with a woman younger than our daughter. The affair is over now, but I no longer trust…

Red flags flying in daughter’s marriage
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Red flags flying in daughter’s marriage

July 8, 2021

DEAR ABBY: I am afraid for my daughter. She has been married less than a year to a very controlling man. He doesn’t ask her to do anything, he demands…

Woman can’t accept ex’s new girlfriend
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Woman can’t accept ex’s new girlfriend

July 2, 2021

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been divorced from my husband of 18 years for two years, separated for three. I have encouraged my ex to get out and meet new people. (He…

Man’s messiness touches nerve in budding romance
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Man’s messiness touches nerve in budding romance

June 24, 2021

DEAR ABBY: I’ve become involved with a woman I’ve been friends with for some years. We became close over the course of 2020, and more recently have soft-launched dating (although…

Study explores memory benefit of nicotine
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Study explores memory benefit of nicotine

June 22, 2021

DEAR ABBY: My patients, like most Americans, believe memory loss is a normal part of aging. But memory loss is never normal. In fact, it can be a symptom of…

Neighbor intrudes on backyard oasis
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Neighbor intrudes on backyard oasis

June 18, 2021

DEAR ABBY: I am a 40-something single mother of two teens. A 24-year-old neighbor with a young daughter moved in next door a couple years ago after her divorce. She…

Spouse removes wedding ring
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Spouse removes wedding ring

June 15, 2021

DEAR ABBY: My wife and I separated three months ago. She has moved out into her own apartment. We are not legally separated or divorced. She removed her wedding ring…

Man finds little support from so-called partner
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Man finds little support from so-called partner

June 15, 2021

DEAR ABBY: I’m a gay man who has been in an on-again/off-again relationship for three years. My partner still lives at home with his mother. He has never left the…