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Anniversary plans suddenly include in-laws
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Anniversary plans suddenly include in-laws

October 31, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I discussed our 25th anniversary and mentioned Hawaii as a possibility. He reached out to his brother and sister-in-law for suggestions, because they have visited…

Old lie remains barrier to full trust
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Old lie remains barrier to full trust

October 29, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I met this guy at work and fell in love. We started going out, and he asked me to be his girlfriend. We moved in together pretty quickly,…

Sister halts contact with mom’s family
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Sister halts contact with mom’s family

October 24, 2025

DEAR ABBY: A few years ago, my uncle made a controversial comment about a social issue in my mom’s family group text. The issue was important enough to my sister…

Handsy grandpa ruins relationship
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Handsy grandpa ruins relationship

October 22, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I’m 22, and my boyfriend is 21. We’ve been dating for a few months. At a recent family dinner, his maternal grandfather hit on me. I was helping…

Longtime friend feels ignored
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Longtime friend feels ignored

October 17, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My friend of 50 years passed away a few months ago. I sent a fruit basket to her family and tried calling, but I was unable to get…

Sister swoops in after engagement ends
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Sister swoops in after engagement ends

October 15, 2025

DEAR ABBY: Eight years ago, I split from my fiance of 30 years, “Anthony,” when he accused me of cheating, which I was absolutely not doing. Throughout the entire relationship,…

Fiance proves he’s no Prince Charming
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Fiance proves he’s no Prince Charming

October 12, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am a 60-year-old divorcee. I am currently dating a Danish man and have been for a year. He asked me to marry him several months ago, and…

Annual celebration has become burden
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Annual celebration has become burden

October 10, 2025

DEAR ABBY: Both my parents had birthdays days apart and near a holiday. About 35 years ago, they started a tradition of having an elaborate party on or near their…

Mental health clouds family’s future
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Mental health clouds family’s future

October 8, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My brother “Joey” married a woman, “Allie,” who is mentally unstable. Every couple of months, she loses her temper at me or one of my family members. It’s…

Holiday card never includes wife in address
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Holiday card never includes wife in address

October 5, 2025

DEAR ABBY: Every year like clockwork, we receive a holiday card from friends, which the wife addresses only to my husband. It is always a jolly card filled with their…

Neighbors have some growing up to do
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Neighbors have some growing up to do

October 3, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am 54 and already facing ageism. Some of my neighbors who are in their 30s and 40s make ageist statements aimed at me. These people do not…

Wife target of husband’s punchlines
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Wife target of husband’s punchlines

October 1, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been married for 49 years. Of course, we’ve had our ups and downs. My husband, “Sid,” said he was joking at the store the other day. When…

Generous dad risks financial well-being
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Generous dad risks financial well-being

September 28, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My father, who is retired, has always had a big heart and almost no regard for himself. Anytime he meets someone in a tough situation, he does whatever…

Gay man hurt by hateful posts
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Gay man hurt by hateful posts

September 26, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am a gay man who has been with my husband for more than 30 years. He’s from a different culture, as are our now-grown adopted children. Most…

Siblings not interested in ‘party’ for dad
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Siblings not interested in ‘party’ for dad

September 24, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My father was a terrible person. He was physically abusive to his wife and kids, and he sexually abused both of my sisters. He was a vicious bully…

Job change falls heavy on family
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Job change falls heavy on family

September 21, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband, “Andy,” and I have been together 25 years, married for 16. We have three kids ages 14, 11 and 9. Our marriage has always been a…

Mom’s change in attitude stumps family
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Mom’s change in attitude stumps family

September 19, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My mom is in her early 80s. More and more often lately, she seems to be avoiding seeing me and my siblings. It wasn’t always like this. She…

New job requires people skills
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New job requires people skills

September 17, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I’m a man in my early 30s who has made a career switch. My new field requires me to be more social because I will be meeting with…

Husband protests wife’s financial planning
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Husband protests wife’s financial planning

September 14, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been married for 19 years to my second husband, “Jack.” Our children are grown. When we met, I was a business owner, and he was retired. He…

Cousin mired in miserable rough patch
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Cousin mired in miserable rough patch

September 12, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I love my cousin “Carly” like a sister. We come from a large family, and both of us are estranged from our mothers (who are sisters) as well…

Boyfriend has personal relationship with boss
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Boyfriend has personal relationship with boss

September 10, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am a man whose long-distance boyfriend of one year has a married female best friend. (She’s his boss.) She is also a tobacco-addicted narcissist who drinks a…

Musical friendship has fallen out of tune
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Musical friendship has fallen out of tune

September 7, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I have a friend, “Chris,” from our teenage days. We’ve been performing music together for decades. We live in different cities but get together every few years. Over…

Elderly couple receive bold request
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Elderly couple receive bold request

September 5, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am an 80-year-old man who is recently retired and in relatively good health. My wife is about the same. We recently received a request from our son,…

Teen punished because of orientation
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Teen punished because of orientation

September 3, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am freshman in high school, and I live with my stepmother and father. They are great parents to me and my little brother but very homophobic. I…

Widowed mom develops new interest
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Widowed mom develops new interest

August 31, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I are in our 50s. For several months, I have been struggling with an issue I have with my mom. She constantly asks me how…

Neighbor suddenly a fixture in lives
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Neighbor suddenly a fixture in lives

August 29, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I have a female friend, “Kylene,” who needs yard work done weekly. My fiance, “Josh,” goes over there to do the work for her. He charges $60. During…

Wife’s view of herself shrinks
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Wife’s view of herself shrinks

August 27, 2025

DEAR ABBY: About eight months ago, I stumbled on my husband watching online porn. He admitted to habitual use but said it was just a stress reliever and he would…