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Recipient responds to gift with sharp tongue
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Recipient responds to gift with sharp tongue

June 15, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I recently moved out of state. His only living relative, a sister, recently came to visit. She has never been married. She is a retired…

Man can’t brush off silence about treatment
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Man can’t brush off silence about treatment

June 13, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I found out that, behind my back, my best friend has been (secretly) growing hair for the past year. He knows I have been balding for many years.…

Colleague’s mockery hits a nerve
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Colleague’s mockery hits a nerve

June 11, 2025

DEAR ABBY: A few months ago, I found out my adult child is transgender. Nobody knows yet except for me, my husband and my other child. Until this year, I…

Toddler draws relatives’ rebuke
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Toddler draws relatives’ rebuke

June 8, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband’s stepmother passed recently after a long illness, and her children specifically wanted our family, including our 2-year-old, to be at her service. When we arrived at…

Need for healthy changes at odds with habits
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Need for healthy changes at odds with habits

June 6, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am struggling with a recent diagnosis of severe liver disease (nonalcoholic) and need to lose 30 pounds. I have had two bouts of cancer in five years…

Couple suffering amid loss of grandchild
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Couple suffering amid loss of grandchild

June 4, 2025

DEAR ABBY: We recently suffered the loss of our first grandchild. She was only 24 and taken far too soon. My partner and I are working through our grief, which…

Divorcee still in love with ex
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Divorcee still in love with ex

June 1, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I have been divorced from my ex-husband, “Cliff,” for a year and a half. My nearly adult children live with me. They rarely see their dad. Our divorce…

Friend’s marriage a roller coaster
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Friend’s marriage a roller coaster

May 30, 2025

DEAR ABBY: A man I know has been married for 40 years. His wife gets mad at him for small things and stops talking to him for three to four…

Boyfriend lets sleeping dogs lie
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Boyfriend lets sleeping dogs lie

May 28, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am recently divorced after a 37-year marriage. My boyfriend, “Grant,” has been divorced for a long time. He is a lovely man – honest, intelligent, healthy, helpful,…

Daughters have clearly sided with ex
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Daughters have clearly sided with ex

May 25, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been divorced for 10 years and have since remarried. I began dating my current wife nine years ago. I have four daughters, ages 24 to 37. Since…

Time to air out dirty laundry?
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Time to air out dirty laundry?

May 21, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My late husband and I were married 38 years when we finally went to marriage counseling. I found out then that he had slept with my sister early…

Husband’s mom not wanted in picture
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Husband’s mom not wanted in picture

May 18, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I have a full-time job and am in pretty good health. I have one son, “Brian,” who is married and has three children. My problem is that my…

Teen endures stepmom’s harsh treatment
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Teen endures stepmom’s harsh treatment

May 16, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My dear friend, “Sandra,” is married with two children. She and her husband have a 4-year-old son together and another son from her husband’s first marriage who is…

Seasonal soup ready for close-up
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Seasonal soup ready for close-up

May 14, 2025

DEAR ABBY: Years ago, I purchased your recipe booklet that had a very good recipe for gazpacho (no oil in the recipe). I no longer have that booklet. Could you…

Ex-wife pops up after 40 years
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Ex-wife pops up after 40 years

May 11, 2025

DEAR ABBY: When my first wife and I were in our early 20s, she left me for another man. It was difficult, but I worked through it, learned to trust…

Relative refuses to make good choices
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Relative refuses to make good choices

May 9, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My cousin (more like a sister) has made some extremely rash and concerning choices over the last year. After she had her second baby, she left her husband…

Parent, daughter struggle for balance
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Parent, daughter struggle for balance

May 7, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I haven’t had a holiday with my grown daughter, “Charly,” since she left the state 12 years ago. When she came out as a lesbian, I wasn’t very…

Mother dumps problems in teen’s lap
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Mother dumps problems in teen’s lap

May 4, 2025

DEAR ABBY: Ever since I was a child, my mom has regarded me as wise, thoughtful and intelligent. She has confided about family issues, tensions at church and cheating at…

Friend abruptly cuts off complaint
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Friend abruptly cuts off complaint

May 2, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I’ve known “Bianca” since high school. She’s my neighbor and godmother to my son. I consider her a sister, and we travel and spend holidays together. Our families…

‘Relationship’ involves sending money
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‘Relationship’ involves sending money

April 29, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I have been in a text relationship for nearly a year. I call it a text relationship because we communicate solely through texting. Because I’m not a video…

Dad’s attitude complicates get-togethers
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Dad’s attitude complicates get-togethers

April 29, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My parents have been divorced for almost 30 years. My father is still furious with my mother, and she is indifferent toward him. My son is about to…

Hardworking son frustrated by free rides
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Hardworking son frustrated by free rides

April 25, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I’m in my early 40s and have been working hard since my mid 20s. I have a nice house that my wife and I are trying to pay…

Mom devastated by wedding plans
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Mom devastated by wedding plans

April 24, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My oldest daughter, “Alexa,” is breaking my heart. She’s engaged to a nice enough man she’s been with for five years, but she has cast aside every single…

Ex-wife still uses kids to hurt man
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Ex-wife still uses kids to hurt man

April 22, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My daughter was living in my garage apartment but then got married and moved away. Her sister is in law school in another state, and her brother is…

Daughter turns 18, sets off on bad path
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Daughter turns 18, sets off on bad path

April 22, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I finally got custody of his daughter “Amelia” 15 days before her 16th birthday. She came to us with homeschooling and little socialization. Now she’s…

Expectant mom wants father out of picture
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Expectant mom wants father out of picture

April 15, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My dad is a registered sex offender who has done time for his crimes against children. My mother has continued to have contact with him and has repeatedly…

Grown godchildren don’t communicate as often
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Grown godchildren don’t communicate as often

April 12, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My godchildren and I were always very close. They consider me literally their second mom. Until now, we were blessed with great communication. The oldest always sent me…

Comedian brothers’ feud not funny
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Comedian brothers’ feud not funny

April 12, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I are the parents of three grown sons. Our middle son (“Kurt,” age 29) has been in conflict with his younger brother (“Jared,” age 26)…

Girlfriend tired of man’s wandering eye
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Girlfriend tired of man’s wandering eye

April 9, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I have been with my boyfriend for 3½ years. Before me, he was known for sleeping around. He has never cheated on me that I am aware of,…