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Co-workers dismissive of youthful newcomer
Dear Abby

Co-workers dismissive of youthful newcomer

January 11, 2026

DEAR ABBY: I am a 31-year-old woman who is not yet established in life. I have no husband or boyfriend, no kids and no clear direction for a career. I…

Boyfriend in no hurry to commit
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Boyfriend in no hurry to commit

January 9, 2026

DEAR ABBY: I have been in a relationship for almost two years with an incredible man who makes my heart sing. We are both in our mid-30s. I have three…

Long relationship reaches tipping point
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Long relationship reaches tipping point

January 7, 2026

DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend and I have been together for 18 years. Everyone we know thinks we are married, but we never got it on paper. He has always been…

Loss of pet complicates marriage
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Loss of pet complicates marriage

January 4, 2026

DEAR ABBY: I lost my beloved puppy, “Truffle,” nine months ago. She was almost 15. I had to euthanize her because she was ill and suffering. I cannot begin to…

Woman finds support from unlikely source
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Woman finds support from unlikely source

December 31, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I’m a 50-year-old woman who has lived with orthopedic challenges because of a congenital metabolic condition. Despite many surgeries and limited mobility, I have led a full life…

Jilted wife blames herself
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Jilted wife blames herself

December 28, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My ex-husband and I were best friends. We shared everything – dreams, laughs and struggles. I was convinced we’d grow old together. When he proposed, I said yes…

Loss of son has grown harder to bear
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Loss of son has grown harder to bear

December 26, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My son died of cancer at 33. It was heartbreaking. My daughter-in-law, “Belinda,” had grown distant before his death, and although they had a son through artificial insemination,…

Dinner unexpectedly comes with show
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Dinner unexpectedly comes with show

December 24, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I’m an active senior man. To keep my beard looking attractive, a hairstylist trims it every two weeks. I’ve had the same stylist for three years, and we…

Man sees ‘signs’ amid heartache
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Man sees ‘signs’ amid heartache

December 19, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I’m a 55-year-old man who dated a very special lady, “Dawn,” for 12 years. We were both married when we met. I fell in love with her, and…

Babysitting brings marriage to brink
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Babysitting brings marriage to brink

December 17, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My wife and I stopped having sexual relations eight years ago. She keeps our two grandchildren 11 to 12 hours a day, five (and sometimes six) days a…

Effort to be good grandfather fails
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Effort to be good grandfather fails

December 12, 2025

DEAR ABBY: Ten years ago, I connected with “Christi,” a daughter I fathered with a woman I was in a relationship with for a short time decades ago. We split…

Family’s collective mental health declining
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Family’s collective mental health declining

December 12, 2025

DEAR ABBY: As my parents have aged, my father has been misremembering things or making wrong assumptions. It has increasingly gotten on my mom’s nerves (she has also become more…

Too late to leave narcissist?
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Too late to leave narcissist?

December 10, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been married to a narcissist for 28 years. He has gaslighted me for our entire 30 years together. He has had a “work wife” and a flirtation…

Teacher has message for parents
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Teacher has message for parents

December 7, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am a teacher. I love my job, and I love my students. However, as I near the end of my 26th year of teaching, there’s something I…

Wife still communicates with ex best friend
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Wife still communicates with ex best friend

December 5, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My best friend of more than 10 years, “Ian,” ghosted me. We used to talk about everything – wives, children, jobs. We spent hours together and helped each…

Unwelcome advances may threaten friendship
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Unwelcome advances may threaten friendship

December 3, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I’m struggling with my integrity and an important friendship. My friend “Beth’s” husband, “Jerry,” came to my house to help with a construction project. After discussing the project,…

Sparks fly when ex returns
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Sparks fly when ex returns

November 30, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My son is 27. He has had some problems recently that were so serious I reached out to his father. His father and I were teenagers when we…

Man wonders why he’s stayed in marriage
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Man wonders why he’s stayed in marriage

November 28, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I have been married for 38 years. We have three adult children and four grandchildren. I have always wondered whether I have stayed in the marriage out of…

Son invites rapist father to wedding
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Son invites rapist father to wedding

November 26, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My child “Logan” is the product of a sexual assault. He has located his father and formed a relationship with him. Logan didn’t know the circumstances of his…

Boyfriend has nursed grudge for six years
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Boyfriend has nursed grudge for six years

November 23, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My daughter is asking me to apologize to her boyfriend, “Harry,” for yelling at him when I was helping them move six years ago. (I had traveled 250…

Noble gesture puts father in dicey situation
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Noble gesture puts father in dicey situation

November 21, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My 19-year-old niece didn’t finish high school and has been in and out of rehab for years. She’s about to leave a residential program and is looking for…

Husband mentions ex in his sleep
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Husband mentions ex in his sleep

November 19, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband of 4½ years had an old girlfriend he was on and off with for 15 years. She passed away while he was in prison. We got…

Teacher experiencing big changes
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Teacher experiencing big changes

November 16, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I’m getting married soon, and I am very excited. It is a true blessing. I love my fiancee very much, and I’m happy to spend the rest of…

Smoker gave it up almost 50 years ago
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Smoker gave it up almost 50 years ago

November 14, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I often see ads about stopping smoking. I’d like to share my story of success in overcoming this filthy habit in the hope that it may help someone…

Gift-giving season reminder to give ‘thanks’
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Gift-giving season reminder to give ‘thanks’

November 12, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I think you once wrote that failure to thank people for gifts is the No. 1 complaint you receive. Well, I can see why! My daughters, grandchildren, nieces…

Ex can’t get abuser out of mind
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Ex can’t get abuser out of mind

November 9, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I just left a verbally and physically abusive relationship. I suffer from mental illness, and “Scott” made it worse. We lived together for almost four years. I could…

Dad tells relatives son cut him off
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Dad tells relatives son cut him off

November 7, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My father and I have had a contentious relationship since I was a teenager. Despite being raised in his house, my values are different from his, and he…