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Woman has diagnosed sleep disorder
Dear Abby

Woman has diagnosed sleep disorder

September 20, 2019

Fast-forward to now: I am a working adult. I’m going back to college, and I have been recently diagnosed with hypersomnia/borderline narcolepsy. I’m on stimulants to help me through the…

Moving brings out social insecurities
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Moving brings out social insecurities

September 18, 2019

I believe you have written something for people who have this challenge. Can I get a copy? What are some tips on how to get started? We’re relocating soon. –…

Wife’s wardrobe doesn’t measure up
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Wife’s wardrobe doesn’t measure up

September 16, 2019

She’s very intelligent and kind, but the issue is her wardrobe. She’s pretty but refuses to wear nice clothes. Instead she wears baggy, boring clothes. Our family is fashion-conscious, and…

Friend frets about woman living at home
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Friend frets about woman living at home

September 13, 2019

I’m in a meaningful relationship and recently bought my first home (on my own). Julie shows no interest in dating or moving out of her parents’ home. She says living…

Husband doesn’t care about lost ring
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Husband doesn’t care about lost ring

September 9, 2019

I called out to him as he was walking away and said that we should probably notify someone and give them our information if it was found. His response was,…

Daughter doesn’t share mom’s interest
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Daughter doesn’t share mom’s interest

September 6, 2019

Her house is stuffed to the gills with furniture, books, legal documents, photos and the like. Each object has a story that goes with it. Every time I visit, she…

Late-night surprise harms relationship
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Late-night surprise harms relationship

September 4, 2019

Her mother raised her with conservative beliefs about any expression of sexuality. I’m worried about her ability to make a future marriage work, and I want the wonderful relationship we…

Harmony clouded by neighbor’s smoking
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Harmony clouded by neighbor’s smoking

September 2, 2019

Our problem is our newest neighbor. She smokes outside at all hours. It prevents the rest of us from enjoying our own outside spaces, nor can we open our windows.…

Woman can’t move on from lost love
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Woman can’t move on from lost love

August 30, 2019

It’s been quite a while since we were together, but I still can’t get over him. I haven’t tried to find another guy because I know he will be second…

Man embarrassed when wife asks ages
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Man embarrassed when wife asks ages

August 26, 2019

She thinks there’s something wrong with me for not being curious about someone’s age. Abby, is it appropriate when meeting someone to ask how old he or she is? To…

Wife frustrated after man loses job
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Wife frustrated after man loses job

August 23, 2019

Since he lost his job, I am angry, frustrated and hurt. His own actions caused his dismissal. I have told him how I feel, but he just yells at me.…

Husband posts private photos of wife
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Husband posts private photos of wife

August 21, 2019

Well, the other night around 3 a.m., I heard his phone dinging over and over again. He was asleep so, thinking it was our daughter trying to reach us, I…

Grandparents never told of birth
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Grandparents never told of birth

August 19, 2019

My heart has always broken for her maternal grandparents. I could not imagine not knowing Hannah and missing out on her life. I have always wanted to send them pictures…

Slovenly lifestyle could be deal-breaker
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Slovenly lifestyle could be deal-breaker

August 16, 2019

When we met, he wasn’t all that into showering and using deodorant. Slowly, over time, he has started to shower daily and wear deodorant, but he still doesn’t brush his…

Husband and son leave woman alone
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Husband and son leave woman alone

August 16, 2019

The problem is, my husband and son have all but disowned me. They spend an enormous amount of time comforting and consoling her to the point that there’s no affection…

Girlfriend of addict loses self-esteem
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Girlfriend of addict loses self-esteem

August 14, 2019

Two months ago, he was arrested. I was right – Rocko was on drugs and had been hanging out with another woman. Like any man who’s caught, he swears she…

Man insists on reading messages
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Man insists on reading messages

August 12, 2019

I have nothing to hide, but I feel foolish standing by him as he reads my messages. I feel like a student in a principal’s office waiting to be reprimanded…

Mom has fallen out of love with dad
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Mom has fallen out of love with dad

August 9, 2019

I’m not excited to see him come home. When I take our children out, I hope he doesn’t want to come. When he touches me affectionately, I want to pull…

Woman happy to be alone attracts unwanted sympathy
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Woman happy to be alone attracts unwanted sympathy

August 9, 2019

Most of the time, I enjoy it – shopping, movies and even dining out. However, for some reason (especially while dining out), I get unwanted expressions of sympathy for being…

Attraction stymied by age difference
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Attraction stymied by age difference

August 7, 2019

We have known each other for years. She had a crush on me when she was 16, but I was married at the time, and she was too young. We…

Attendee wants to stay out of picture
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Attendee wants to stay out of picture

August 5, 2019

I have been photographed many times while I was browsing through the vendors. I have never given my permission to have any of them published. The photos appear on state…

Sisters puzzle parents’ secret bankruptcy
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Sisters puzzle parents’ secret bankruptcy

July 29, 2019

My sister and I are now struggling with this information because my mom and stepdad promote a direct sales business where they advertise their multiple cars and lavish lifestyle as…

Friend may not be able to support herself
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Friend may not be able to support herself

July 27, 2019

Lately, Mary has confided (and I’ve seen) that their marriage is troubled. There’s a real possibility that she will soon be on her own with a child, no job experience,…

Free spirit feels like wings clipped
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Free spirit feels like wings clipped

July 22, 2019

My problem is we see the world through completely different eyes. I’m an artist. I want to go out and explore the world and do crazy things. He’s more comfortable…

Sisters plan to leave husband behind
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Sisters plan to leave husband behind

July 19, 2019

When I told my sister, she excitedly told me she’d like to come along. We would be very happy to have this time together because she lives across the country,…

Parents unsure how to have ‘the talk’
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Parents unsure how to have ‘the talk’

July 17, 2019

Dear Grandmom: Many parents find the subject of sex embarrassing, so they postpone discussing it with their children. They forget that children today mature earlier and are exposed to sexual…

Ex insists on ‘happy family’ photos
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Ex insists on ‘happy family’ photos

July 13, 2019

His controlling nature was a major factor in her decision to end their marriage. Even now, after being divorced more than two years, he tries to control her life. One…

Daughter disturbed by noisy intimacy
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Daughter disturbed by noisy intimacy

July 10, 2019

My dilemma: I am smitten, to say the least, with an attractive, supportive and very loving man. I have invited him over and introduced him to the girls, which went…

Remembering baby an annual ritual
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Remembering baby an annual ritual

July 8, 2019

My daughter, Evelyn, was born at 21 weeks gestation and died at birth. She would turn 7 this fall. I think about her every day. In the wake of her…