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Woman chimes in about PDA
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Woman chimes in about PDA

June 10, 2022

DEAR ABBY: A few months ago, my daughter told me she was with her boyfriend at the local bowling alley and they were kissing and hugging. When she went to…

Man struggles after friend’s death
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Man struggles after friend’s death

June 9, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I’m a gay man. A friend of more than 20 years, “Marci,” passed away eight months ago after battling cancer for four years. Just a month after the…

Daughter feels powerless to help dad
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Daughter feels powerless to help dad

June 7, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My dad, who is nearing 80, has been married to my stepmom, “Ruth,” for nearly 35 years. She has always been temperamental and controlling to a degree, but…

First wife unsure about polygamy
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First wife unsure about polygamy

June 7, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I are in our 40s. Last year, we decided to make a very big change in our lives. We decided to seek out a second…

Woman eats roommate’s food
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Woman eats roommate’s food

June 2, 2022

DEAR ABBY: A couple of months ago, I moved from my mother’s into an apartment with a friend I had rekindled a high school friendship with a few years back.…

Retired man smitten with neighbor
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Retired man smitten with neighbor

May 31, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I are retired. A short while ago, a young couple moved in across the street. A few months later, my husband, who does yardwork for…

Woman always revisits past decisions
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Woman always revisits past decisions

May 28, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I’m a divorced woman, soon to be 60, who is often haunted by vivid memories of the past. I constantly recall times in my life that I regret…

Sneaky boyfriend sabotages friendship
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Sneaky boyfriend sabotages friendship

May 28, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I have a gay friend I’ll call “Allen.” We have been close friends for 13 years. Allen has visited me often with his friends from England, and two…

Fiance sees bachelorette party ‘souvenirs’
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Fiance sees bachelorette party ‘souvenirs’

May 24, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I’m about to get married to a wonderful woman. We have been together for 16 years and have two precious kids. Recently, we were treated to bachelor and…

College student tries to reason with mom
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College student tries to reason with mom

May 20, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I am a freshman at a Midwestern university, and I love it. I finished my first semester with straight A’s, and my second semester has been strong. I…

Sister’s greed is last straw
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Sister’s greed is last straw

May 19, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My father died five years ago at 90. For the last 20 years of his life, both my sisters shunned him because they disliked his second wife (who…

Dessert tastes best shared
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Dessert tastes best shared

May 17, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I lost your cookbooklet collection! My family and I have really enjoyed some of those recipes. I have loved all the ones I have tried, but my favorites…

Dad gets zoomies before bedtime
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Dad gets zoomies before bedtime

May 13, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My husband gets very upset when our 4-year-old sons don’t share his enthusiasm about something that excites him. He wants them (and me) to jump up and down…

Woman’s opinion of relative comes out
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Woman’s opinion of relative comes out

May 12, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My sister and I have always been close. She’s married to a man I have always thought is domineering and arrogant. I also suspect that he’s emotionally abusive…

Widow eager to continue affair
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Widow eager to continue affair

May 10, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I am widowed after 45 years of marriage. A male work friend of 20 of those years wants to have a relationship with me but he’s still married.…

Battle erupts over social media
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Battle erupts over social media

May 6, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My adult son has a drug addiction, for which he is receiving treatment. My family and I have just met his daughter, who we had only recently learned…

Mom feels mistreated by daughter
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Mom feels mistreated by daughter

May 5, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I have a daughter, “Molly,” who is in her late 30s. Her father and I divorced when she was an infant, and I raised her, with help from…

Husband keeps racy mementos
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Husband keeps racy mementos

May 3, 2022

DEAR ABBY: A year ago, when I discovered my husband’s porn videos and naked pictures of his ex-girlfriends, he assured me he would delete them. It has been a year,…

Molestation has woman on tough path
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Molestation has woman on tough path

April 29, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I’m a widow in a new relationship. I was molested for years by an older sibling. When my behavior became troublesome – skipping school, becoming antisocial – I…

Mother-in-law brings unwelcome gift
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Mother-in-law brings unwelcome gift

April 26, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I are expecting our second child. Our first pregnancy ended in miscarriage, so we were overjoyed to find out I was pregnant again, this time…

Woman faces uncertain future
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Woman faces uncertain future

April 22, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been married for 14 years and have two kids. Our youngest is 11. For the last nine years, it has been a loveless marriage. Luckily, he works…

Friendship derailed over pandemic rules
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Friendship derailed over pandemic rules

April 21, 2022

DEAR ABBY: A dear friend of many years is currently not speaking to me. She recently moved from California to Denver and had invited me to visit. We agreed on…

Glib food comment eats at woman
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Glib food comment eats at woman

April 20, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I had weight-loss surgery three years ago and lost 134 pounds. Two years later, I traded addictions and became a problem drinker. During this time I met a…

Dad may bring girlfriend to event
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Dad may bring girlfriend to event

April 15, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My father, who has been a widower for 17 years, has been dating a woman on and off for 12 years, a couple years after my brother and…

Mystery man unsettles friend
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Mystery man unsettles friend

April 14, 2022

DEAR ABBY: A friend of mine lost her husband a couple of years ago. I didn’t think she was looking for love or companionship, but all of a sudden she…

Man makes connection as marriage teeters
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Man makes connection as marriage teeters

April 12, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I have been married for 17 years with three great kids. My wife and I have struggled on and off during those 17 years. I often feel like…

Aging dog’s care becomes obstacle
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Aging dog’s care becomes obstacle

April 8, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I’m in a seven-year relationship with a beautiful woman I love and would do anything in the world for. I feel she would do the same for me.…

Sparks fly when couple reconnect
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Sparks fly when couple reconnect

April 8, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I reconnected with an old flame, “Ollie,” eight years ago. We would see each other and catch up during a weekly event he hosted. We’re both married with…

Friend traumatized after murder
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Friend traumatized after murder

April 5, 2022

DEAR ABBY: A dear friend I have known since we were children was murdered. She was lovely in every way, and I am bereft. I cannot process my grief over…

Plenty to chew on after dinner
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Plenty to chew on after dinner

April 1, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I once hosted a holiday dinner for which I had made a ham and a turkey with all the sides and three different pies. I even made a…