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Dad-to-be looks for push gift on a budget
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Dad-to-be looks for push gift on a budget

July 29, 2017

We have already been spending a lot of extra money to decorate a nursery. In addition, the delivery will be costly under our high-deductible health plan. Combined with the fact…

Guilt meets grief after boyfriend’s death
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Guilt meets grief after boyfriend’s death

July 28, 2017

Aside from my sadness and guilt, I’m struggling with the fear that I’ll never live down my infidelities or be able to make it up to him. It is clouding…

Stay-at-home dad wonders if he’s judged
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Stay-at-home dad wonders if he’s judged

July 27, 2017

My question is, do women (and men) think stay-at-home dads are lazy people who leech off their wives? I have to admit negative thoughts have crossed my mind, and I…

Wife with sketchy memory depends on husband
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Wife with sketchy memory depends on husband

July 27, 2017

DEAR UNSURE: In successful marriages the division of labor is usually “each according to his ability, each according to his need.” Your wife’s schedule should be her responsibility, and if…

Newlywed’s world caves in when truth comes out
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Newlywed’s world caves in when truth comes out

July 18, 2017

DEAR T.T.A.: You will feel less tired and broken after you have consulted a lawyer about helping you get out of this fraudulent marriage. And while you’re at it, you…

Aunt seeks right approach to help niece
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Aunt seeks right approach to help niece

July 17, 2017

Long story short, my niece has been dating a man her father’s age. She lives a few hours away, so most of what I see is on social media. I…

Mom wants strings on hand-me-downs
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Mom wants strings on hand-me-downs

July 14, 2017

When my youngest daughter was born, I asked her about the dresses, and she informed me they were not her style so she had given them away. I was heartbroken,…

Man gets angry at wife’s hurt feelings
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Man gets angry at wife’s hurt feelings

July 14, 2017

When I shared with him how I felt, his response was that he couldn’t control his kids, but I feel he could have controlled his response. To exclude me was…

Mom needs help in puberty conversation
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Mom needs help in puberty conversation

July 12, 2017

DEAR MOM: You can spare your daughter a frightening experience when her first period arrives if you start talking to her now, before it happens. Start the conversation by making…

Talkative woman struck speechless
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Talkative woman struck speechless

July 11, 2017

I do sometimes talk a lot when I’m excited, but no one has ever said this to me, certainly not my husband. The next day I felt very angry, especially…

Neighbors have difficult conversation
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Neighbors have difficult conversation

July 10, 2017

While walking my dog yesterday, a neighbor stopped me. She was standing in her driveway crying and nearly hysterical. Her husband has been in a nursing home for three years.…

Twins disagree to go separate ways
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Twins disagree to go separate ways

July 8, 2017

My sister was hurt and upset when I told her I prefer that we go to separate colleges, and she took it personally. It is nothing personal. I love her…

Boy can’t resist playing with bullies
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Boy can’t resist playing with bullies

June 30, 2017

When my neighborhood friends come to my house, I offer them some things (food, mostly) that are strictly off-limits, but it feels necessary. Also, these friends bully me, and it’s…

Suicide rate among older men overlooked
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Suicide rate among older men overlooked

June 30, 2017

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, the rate of suicide for men 70 and older in the U.S. is more than double the overall suicide rate. Yet,…

Horoscope for June 28, 2017
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Horoscope for June 28, 2017

June 28, 2017

TAURUS (April 20 to May 20): You are clear-thinking today, which is why you will go after what you want. During discussions with others, you will say what you mean…